My experience has been that there are times to teach and times not to teach. When relationships are strained and the air charged with emotion, an attempt to teach is often perceived as a form of judgment and rejection.

Independent people who do not have the maturity to think and actinterdependently may be good individual producers, but they won't be good leaders or team players

Albert Einstein observed, “The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them.