As a writer, you should not judge, you should understand.

Don’t judge. Teach. It’s a learning process.

Everyone is different from each other, but that doesn’t mean everyone should be indifferent to each other.

Everyone has a point of view,' Mama used to say to me, 'and everyone is entitled to one. So, don't judge them Leave them alone.

Judgment or blaming is not the point. Understanding is.

Do you not realize, Hastings, that each and everyone of us is a complete mystery with layers. We each try to judge each other, but nine times out of ten, we are wrong.

Instead of condemning people, let’s try to understand them. Let’s try to figure out why they do what they do. That’s a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. “To know all is to forgive all.

Each one of us has lived through some devastation, some loneliness, some weather superstorm or spiritual superstorm, when we look at each other we must say, I understand. I understand how you feel because I have been there myself. We must support each other and empathize with each other because each of us is more alike than we are unalike.

بدلاً من إدانة الناس دعنا نحاول أن نفهمهم.. هذا مفيد جداً خير من الانتقاد وبالتالي فإنه يولد العاطفة والحب والتسامح..كي تفهم الجميع، سامح الكل

To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all diff erent in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.

There's a story behind every person. There's a reason why they're the way they are. Think about that before you judge anyone.

No argument, no reasoning, no blame, just understanding. If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change.

Before we can forgive one another, we have to understand one another.

If I let myself really understand another person, I might be changed by that understanding. And we all fear change. So, as I say, it is not an easy thing to permit oneself to understand an individual.