It is hard to swear when sex is not dirty and blasphemy does not exist.

Good sex consists of two people taking full responsibility for meeting their own needs. It has no goal. It is free of agendas and expectations. Rather than being a performance, it is an unfolding of sexual energy. It is about two people revealing themselves in the most intimate and vulnerable of ways. Good sex occurs when two people focus on their own pleasure, passion, and arousal, and stay connected to those same things in their partner. All of these dynamics allow good sex to unfold in unpredictable, spontaneous, and memorable ways.

Everybody says sex is obscene. The only true obscenity is war.

You can't talk about fucking in America, people say you're dirty. But if you talk about killing somebody, that's cool.

Having sex is like bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.

Some things are better than sex, and some are worse, but there's nothing exactly like it.

If the word ''fuck'' is ''obscene'' or ''dirty'', why isn't the word ''duck'' 75% ''dirty''?

Good sex is like good bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.

You think homosexuality is disgusting? Then, it follows, it follows as the night the day, that you find sex disgusting, for there is nothing done between two men or two women that is, by any objective standard, different from that which is done between a man and a woman.

I'm not sneering at sex. It's necessary and it doesn't have to be ugly. But it always has to be managed. Making it glamorous is a billion-dollar industry and it costs every cent of it.

Writing is the flip side of sex - it's only good when it's over.

Sex should be friendly. Otherwise stick to mechanical toys; it's more sanitary.

Great sex is apocalyptic. There is no such thing as great sex unless you have an apocalyptic moment.

Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent