"In this way, "knowing yourself" or "finding yourself" can be dangerous. It can cement you into a strict role and saddle you with unnecessary expectations. It can close you off to inner potential and outer opportunities.
I say don't find yourself. I say never know who you are. Because that's what keeps you striving and discovering. And it forces you to remain humble in your judgments and accepting of the differences in others."

As noted before, we’re unfairly biased toward what we already know, what we believe to be certain. If I believe I’m a nice guy, I will avoid situations that could potentially contradict that belief. If I believe I’m an awesome cook, I’ll seek out opportunities to prove that to myself over and over again. The belief always takes precedence. Until we change how we view ourselves, what we believe we are and are not, we cannot overcome our avoidance and anxiety. We cannot change.
In this way, “knowing yourself” or “finding yourself” can be dangerous. It can cement you into a strict role and saddle you with unnecessary expectations. It can close you off to inner potential and outer opportunities.
I say don’t find yourself. I say never know who you are. Because that’s what keeps you striving and discovering. And it forces you to remain humble in your judgements and accepting of the differences in others.

If you cannot figure out who you are, figure out who you are not and who you don’t want to be.

If you don't know who you truly are, you'll never know what you really want.

If you are never alone, you cannot know yourself.

one can never know oneself but only narrate oneself

To know yourself is to forget yourself.

Never let anyone define who you are.

I cannot know who I am, because I don't know which part of me is not me.

The fear of finding oneself alone – that is what they suffer from – and so they don’t find themselves at all.

Knowing who we are is hard. Eliminate who we’re not first, and we’ll find ourselves where we need to be.

A very important thing is not to make up your mind that you are any one thing.

Seek not thyself without thyself to find.

You remake yourself as you grow and as the world changes. Your identity doesn’t get found. It emerges.