Since you alone are responsible for your thoughts, only you can change them.

You are the only one responsible for your own wants.

The only person you can now or ever change is yourself. The only person that it is your business to control is yourself.

You are the only one who can decide what is important to you in your relationship.

nobody but yourself can tell you what to accept and what to reject.

...remember one thing only: that it's you-nobody else-who determines your destiny and decides your fate. Nobody else can be alive for you; nor can you be alive for anybody else.

What you are is a question only you can answer.

You are what you think.

I, and I alone, am responsible for everything I think and feel.

The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be,

The only person who needs to be concerned about the story of you is you.

You are what you believe yourself to be.

You create yourself, whatever you believe you are. You are the way you are because that is what you believe about yourself.

Look inside yourself for the answers - you're the only one who knows what's best for you. Everybody else is only guessing.