You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.

As you care less about what people think of you, you will care more about what others think of themselves.

You wouldn’t worry so much about what others think of you if you realized how seldom they do.

is easier to let go of someone’s opinion of you when you understand that others see you through a combination of their past conditioning and their current emotional state without realizing it, they see themselves first, and through that lens they get an unclear picture of you

The way you see people is the way you treat them, and the way you treat them is what they become.

You’ll stop worrying what others think about you when you realize how seldom they do.

You’ll stop worrying what others think about you when you realize how seldom they do.

You can control how you treat people, but you cannot actually control what they think. The idea that behaving a certain way will elicit a certain response is a delusion that will keep you puppeteering through your life. It will distance you from the person you want to be and the life you want to live.

If you take people to be what they think themselves to be, you will only hurt them as they hurt themselves so grievously all the time. But if you see them as they are in reality, it will do them enormous good.

People determine how to treat us in large part by observing how we treat ourselves. The way you speak about yourself affects how people will speak with you. the way you allow yourself to be spoken to reinforces what people think you deserve.

As you become less of a mystery to yourself, you can start to look at other people with a greater sense of clarity and compassion.

Other people's opinion of you does not have to become your reality.

If you want to change the way you feel about people, you have to change the way you treat them.

How we see ourselves, how we see each other,” she said, “should be determined by us and not by people who generally don’t like us; people who pass laws certifying us as less than human. Too many of us see each other as ‘they’ see us,” she continued. “Time for that shit to stop. We’re going to have to decide for ourselves what we are and what we’re not. Create our own image of ourselves. And nurture it and feed it till it can stand on its own.