Perhaps the most horrifying thing about nonconsensual sex is that, in an instant, it erases you. Your own desires, your safety and well-being, your ownership of the body that may very well have been the only thing you ever felt sure you owned — all of it becomes irrelevant, even nonexistent. You don’t need to be a helpless, innocent child to be changed by that.

Roxane Gay Not That Bad: Dispatches from Rape Culture
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Roxane Gay (born October 15, 1974) is an American writer, professor, editor, and commentator.

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