Poor processors play the victim and blame others and external events rather than seeing how they contributed to the problem. You know you’re witnessing a poor processor when you don’t hear the word “I.” You’ll hear him or her say things such as “All millennials are lazy. These kids have no work ethic. They are causing my business to suffer.

There are three things extremely hard: steel, a diamond, and to know one’s self. — Benjamin Franklin

Awareness shows you that you are at the center of all your problems (and solutions).