Sylvester McNutt III

If I send you a song, it is because the music made me think about you, or even deeper, it’s helping me explain who I am to you in a way that I cannot.

The pain that came to you is not always a choice, but keeping it on you is. Forgive. Stop the obsessive thinking related to it, and allow the pain to fade away.

And that’s the thing about pain. Sometimes it’s on our face as tears, and other times it’s hidden deep within.

The emotion of love isn’t enough to keep two people together. There has to be communication, compatibility, understanding, and most importantly, there has to be desire on both ends to keep adding value to each other’s existence.

When negative energy finds you, never fight back. If you do, you become it.

Top-Ten Reasons Why I Don’t Care about Your Opinion ​​It has never paid any of my bills. ​​It will not be there when I am sick. ​​It does not give me orgasms. ​​It has never made me a better person. ​​It is negative and egocentric. ​​It doesn’t uplift, challenge, or encourage. ​​It came from you. ​​It will not marry me or carry my casket. ​​It is not based on facts. ​​It does not determine my worth.

Allow your heart to settle with a man who challenges you, a man who makes you think.
A man who expands your
consciousness is a man worth falling in love with over and over.

Make your life simpler by reducing how many decisions you make each day.

Dear self, don't ever wait for another person to make your life better, that's your job. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and take charge of your life. Nobody will save you; but you can, if you are willing to take the steps.

This time in my life is dedicated to healing deeply, while attracting happiness.

Healing is a formula. Add what heals. Subtract what hurts. Learn from what goes. Cherish what stays.

When on a date, stay off your phone and stay plugged into the art of connecting.

Learn that living in the present moment will always heal you. Living in the past forces you to align with it, especially if there is pain. Living in the future forces you to be anxious — live here.

I retired from dealing with the fake version of people. I only want your authentic self, no matter how dark or deep it is. I don’t expect perfect from myself or you, but I do expect real. I do expect honest.

Self-love is about participating in healthy environments that grow you and nourish you. It is also about cutting yourself off from evil and energy-draining environments that kill you slowly.